My Friend Morpheus Visits

The reality checks are done for a few reasons, one of them being that if you are in a dream and are questioning whether it is real or not, a nose pinch or jump goes a long way, and building the habit so that it is almost 2nd nature to question and confirm is very helpful.

Can you describe the Distraction in detail?

How often do you practice and for how long?

Do you get completely derailed and have to look at something else?

Or are you still able to focus attention on the object, while thoughts and other distractors arise?

What other Meditations do you do?

That 1% difference may mean you have to keep the glasses on the entire time, and not be able to look at it with the naked eye, like you would be able if you are in 100% totality, or the heart of the shadow. If you have never seen this phenomena before (360 sunset), might be something to plan for to see, should not be too far of a communte, but you will run into nasty traffic if you dont give yourself a generous head start. Clouds and weather will make it unviewable, check weather in advance.

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Yeah it is! This is really awesome, definitely 2 ‘WHALES’ of a synchronicities!

I was humming Amazing Grace the other day and thinking of the song, and how beautiful it is just to hum.

Yes he says 3 things can happen. I have only had the first of the 3, which is you wake up. I really want to meditate in a dream, but am afraid of closing my eyes and losing the lucidity. I need to remind myself to fall backwards next time, have heard cool things happen doing that.

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Another LD last night. Woo, let’s go!!!

This one was triggered by doing a memory recall in my dream. I’ve been doing this- reviewing my memory of the last hour or so a few times a day- to try to increase my dream recall. I didn’t know it could also induce lucidity.

I was in an apartment made of industrial cement blocks. As soon as I became lucid I went downstairs and out the front door hoping to find an ocean. I don’t find an ocean however. It’s night, and I’m surrounded by a typical landscaped scene you would find outside any suburbia apartment complex. I walk back in, close the door and face it. I say “I wanna see the ocean!” I don’t have your manifestation skills yet though @NightHawk999 , so when I walk out again it’s the same scene, only it’s dusk now. There is a noticeable glow on the horizon where there wasn’t before.

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I feel like I easily lose my focus and have a hard time finding it again. Also I fidget a lot. Been trying to stop that, but I often forget.

3 15 minute session a day.

Yes I love the object a lot of the time and it takes me a while to get back to it.

Vicharya atman, patikulamanisakara, tonglen. Occasionally yoga nidra.

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I am beaming reading this! Truly amazing and unbelievable, well done! :star_struck:

My manifestation skills are still a novice and I have never had 3 LDs in one week, you got me beat!

Cool synchronicity, I was thinking about Tenzins 4 foundational principles today, and how the Dream Team recommends doing this, and now for the 3rd time today, you bring it up. Time to add this to the arsenal of practices.

When I wanted to do Dream yoga, I practiced by visualizing levitating things in wake life with my mind, like cars, dogs, etc. It might help to watch a lot of Dolphin videos before bed, and then visualize yourself as one, or swimming with them in the liminal state. Check out the thread Animal Communication for some recent posts on Dolphins.

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I have not heard of these before. Can you explain, or give links?

I am glad you mentioned this. One of the things I was going to recommend was that you change the position to the most comfotable one possible. Laying down on your back, or on your belly in Sphinx pose. My yoga teacher said something really fascinating a few weeks ago:

“Notice how the different yoga postures bring out different personalities within you”

Meaning uncomfotable poses will make our minds more agitated, and we will want to fidget. Deeply comfortable ones will make us calm and not want to leave them.

Do you do yoga streches before a meditation?

Do you do breath work before a meditation?

What times during the day do you do your meditations?

Eyes open or eyes closed and visualizing the object?

Right off the bat I would say do 15-30min of yoga stretches to get the tension out of the body (especially focusing on problem areas). Then do alternating nostril breathing for 5min. Then lie down and do yoga nidra for 5-10min. When completely relaxed, laying down looking at the ceiling, do the Dzogchen Star/Sky gazing practice, just focusing on the ceiling and letting it completely permeate you mind. See how long you can do that without distraction. And see if you can elongate the periods in between the distraction.

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Had a dream about my father dying last night. Today is his 71st birthday. Don’t know what to do with that lol. Good thing though, I am more aware of how precious the time I have with him is, more than before.

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happy birthday to your father :heart_eyes:
71 is a great number to reach! a privilege.

this is SO beautiful…
enjoy all you can :heart_eyes:

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Death dreams can mean many things, often they involve change.

Sometimes they can be precognitive, depends on the texture of the dream.

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Second data point on stage 2: during an LD last night since there was nothing else to do except watch a printer pump out advertisements for some company or something, I tried stage 2 again. There was some initial resistance but then my hand slid in. It was a door and I actually ended up opening the door with my hand inside it. Lol.

Also tried stage 3, initially with my hand, then with a bush. When I looked at my hand it was all misshapen with extra fingers growing out at weird angels and stuff like that. So I looked around for an easier object to transform and saw a bush. When I concentrated on the bush it became highlighted in gray like in a video game and I saw all kinds of symbols on it. I looked for one that would allow me to change it’s size but couldn’t find one. Then I think I just tried to change it without the overlay and the overlay dropped. I got an intense feeling in my head while concentrating on the bush. I think it might have become thinner, but other than that, not much changed.

Need to work on learning how to stabilize my dreams in future LDs. All my LDs so far have been short- 5 minutes top.

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Thank you! We had a good day. Had some cake. I’m so grateful to have him part of my life. I need to remember not to take for granted any more.

I feel this was more of a teaching dream. A “hey wake up your dad’s not gonna be around for ever, stop taking him for granted” dream.

Thanks! It’s not a contest, lol. But yeah becoming lucid is one thing, learning how to stabilize them and learning dream control is another. Might have had some success with the first, need to work on the latter.

I saw your other questions, will get to them when I am able. Today’s a busy day for me. But wanted to respond to some of the things others had posted.

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I learned this here with another NCC member:
if you want to stabilize a dream, you remember the previous dream and say it out loud. With me, it always works.

this reminded of a drawing that passed by me the other day:


I LOVE this book…

https://www.amazon.com/Boy-Mole-Fox-Horse/dp/0062976583

It’s a treasure of kindness, love and companionship :brown_heart:

this is SO beautiful… :heart_eyes:

I also think it was this… so, like @NightHawk999 mentioned… it was a changing dream :heart_eyes:

enjoy the flow… :dolphin:

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I too am “rebooting” my LD / DY practice for the “umpteenth” time over the last 10 years, this year. This time I’m really serious about it and have been keeping it up daily for a month (started March 8th 2024). I really want to do the in-dream DY practices, meet spiritual guides, and just explore the universes and dimensions. “To seek out new life and new civilizations” (Star Trek haha). I am living inside the Four Foundational Practices chapter of TYoDaS [2nd, 2022 edition]. Good luck to both of us! Never ever quit! It’s too awesome!

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Memory is one of the major fundamentals of dreaming and lucid dreaming! Building strong retrospective and prospective memory is IMO the key to dreaming, along with strong intent and a continual, stable, lucid awareness/presence. Daytime “looking back” memory exercises are great.

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Had two LDs last night. Both working with fear. In the first I asked the dream to “show me my shadow.” Abrupt scene shift as I wake up in a dark dorm room. Unsure whether I am awake or not I do a nose pinch and confirm I am still dreaming. I get up and walk around the room, heart pounding, expecting to see menacing shadows in the room with me. I see nothing though. I start doing Tonglen for everyone who is afraid like I am, and the room visibly brightens.

Second dream I spawn in a large tent in Johannesburg or Cape Town- some South African city. I can see a tall red skyscraper frame by the opening of the tent before me. Some large tough looking person is talking to someone else, dream me knows he is a mob boss. I decide to work with fear during this dream. I walk out of the tent and look for some situation that will help me work with fear. I see cars driving down a road and decide to jump in front of traffic. When I try, however, the cars and trucks seem to anticipate me and steer out of my way before I even step into the road. I try to compensate by stepping into their new trajectory, but they anticipate that too. I find this amusing.

I don’t see any cars for a while so I look for a busier road. I finally find one and see a Formula 1 car speeding down the road. I step in front of it. It completely stops when it hits me and becomes small, like a toy car that ran into my foot. I see a yellow car coming at me and stop it with my foot. I have fun stopping cars like this for a bit until I see a woman running away from a flock of birds that appear to be chasing her. I wave at the birds “Leave her alone!” and they fly off except for one that alights on her outstretched arm. The bird has golden brown, green and red feather. I pet it. Suddenly it opens its beak and says “I am worried about you.” “Oh? Why?” I ask. “Because,” it says and then says something I completely don’t understand. It’s like it had been muted. I wake up.

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Absolutely, the nature of change is impernanence, death for all things and all beings. Cherish them to their fullest when you are around them.

I that is what is so cool about this discipline, it is like learning a martial art. Different levels of mastery to work at, and always new levels to reach and achieve.

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Welcome back to the practice! I found that results have come quicker this time around than last time. Hope it’s the same for you.

Same. Hope to have a space dream one of these days haha.

I’ve done DY practices in dreams and I have found it both challenging and rewarding.

Ah a fellow Trekky :smile:

Love this. Need to read this book.

For sure! It’s very well worth putting the effort in. My dream life has gotten so much richer over the past 3 weeks when I first started having lucid dreams again. Not only the lucid dreams. The non-lucid dreams have also become more rich and significant.

For sure. My dream recall isn’t the best. And it actually fell apart this last week. Had several nights where I couldn’t recall one dream. So it’s important to keep working on it. I trust that no matter what happens, things are working underneath the surface, things that will help me grow as a person, no matter if they manifest as increased dream recall and lucidity or not.

Thanks for the tip! I’ll try this, if I can remember. That’s the problem haha. Sometimes I don’t remember dream stabilizing techniques when I am in the middle of a dream.

Oh wow! This looks like a great book. Adding it to my wish list. I love the art style :green_heart:

Thank you!

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Vicharya atman is self-inquiry meditation. You go through all aspects of your experience and say
“I am not this.” Breath, body, thoughts, sense of I, blankness behind the I.

Patikulamanasikara is a meditation technique in Theravada Buddhism that helps reduce sensual desire: Patikulamanasikara - Wikipedia

Tried other postures, they have their draw backs. On my back I fall asleep. On my side I can’t concentrate. Haven’t tried on my stomach, I’ll see about giving that a try.

I do alternate nostril breathing before meditation but no yoga.

I meditate in the morning and right before bed. Recently I’ve been adding another meditation session in the middle of the night when I am doing WBTB.

I focus on my breath. Sometimes I lose the feeling of the breath in my nostrils. Recently when this happens I’ve switched to noticing the rise and fall of my stomach when breathing.

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" In Buddhist scriptures, this practice involves mentally identifying 31 parts of the body, contemplated upon in various ways.

Objects of contemplation[edit]

This meditation involves meditating on 31 different body parts:

head hairs (Pali: kesā), body hairs (lomā), nails (nakhā), teeth (dantā), skin (taco),
flesh (masaṃ**), tendons (nahāru), bones (aṭṭhi), bone marrow (aṭṭhimiñjaṃ**), kidneys (vakkaṃ**),
heart (hadayaṃ**), liver (yakanaṃ**), pleura (kilomakaṃ**), spleen (pihakaṃ**), lungs (papphāsaṃ**),
entrails (antaṃ**), mesentery (antaguṇaṃ**), undigested food (udariyaṃ**), feces (karīsaṃ**),
bile (pittaṃ**), phlegm (semhaṃ**), pus (pubbo), blood (lohitaṃ**), sweat (sedo), fat (medo),
tears (assu), skin-oil (vasā), saliva (kheo), mucus (siṅghānikā), fluid in the joints (lasikā), urine (muttaṃ**).[15]

In a few discourses, these 31 body parts are contextualized within the framework of the mahābhūta (the elements) so that the earth element is exemplified by the body parts from head hair to feces, and the water element is exemplified by bile through urine.[16]

A few other discourses preface contemplation of these 31 body parts in the following manner: “Herein … a monk contemplates this body upward from the soles of the feet, downward from the top of the hair, enclosed in skin, as being full of many impurities.”[17]

The 31 identified body parts in pātikūlamanasikāra contemplation are the same as the first 31 body parts identified in the “Dvattimsakara” (“32 Parts [of the Body]”) verse (Khp. 3) regularly recited by monks.[18] The thirty-second body part identified in the latter verse is the brain (matthaluga).[19] The Visuddhimagga suggests the enumeration of the 31 body parts implicitly includes the brain in aṭṭhimiñjaṃ**, which is traditionally translated as “bone marrow”.[20]

Methods of contemplation[edit]

A canonical formulation of how to meditate on these is:

“Just as if a sack with openings at both ends were full of various kinds of grain – wheat, rice, mung beans, kidney beans, sesame seeds, husked rice – and a man with good eyesight, pouring it out, were to reflect, ‘This is wheat. This is rice. These are mung beans. These are kidney beans. These are sesame seeds. This is husked rice’; in the same way, the monk reflects on this very body from the soles of the feet on up, from the crown of the head on down, surrounded by skin and full of various kinds of unclean things [as identified in the above enumeration of bodily organs and fluids]…”[21]

In regards to this and other body-centered meditation objects, the Satipatthana Sutta (DN 22) provides the following additional context and expected results:

In this way [a monk] remains focused internally on the body in & of itself, or externally on the body in & of itself, or both internally & externally on the body in & of itself. Or he remains focused on the phenomenon of origination with regard to the body, on the phenomenon of passing away with regard to the body, or on the phenomenon of origination & passing away with regard to the body. Or his mindfulness that ‘There is a body’ is maintained to the extent of knowledge & remembrance. And he remains independent, unsustained by (not clinging to) anything in the world…"[22]

According to the post-canonical Pali atthakatha (commentary) on the Satipatthana Sutta, one can develop “seven kinds of skill in study” regarding these meditation objects through:

  1. repetition of the body parts verbally
  2. repetition of the body parts mentally
  3. discerning the body parts individually in terms of each one’s color
  4. discerning the body parts individually in terms of each one’s shape
  5. discerning if a body part is above or below the navel (or both)
  6. discerning the body part’s spatial location
  7. spatially and functionally juxtaposing two body parts[23]"

Very powerful practice thank you for letting me know this.

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from my experience the reason why I remember certain commands, is because it serves the whole… a kind of cosmic connection that makes me remember what I need to remember each time… this to say that I don’t control those things… it just touches me and “plim” magic… I remember when it’s needed :dolphin:

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I think I understand what you mean. A lot of the times when I become lucid I don’t have an agenda but I find myself doing something important or constructive any ways. Like all those dreams I had where I suddenly decided to engage in DY practices despite not having that intention before falling asleep. It almost feels like I am being guided in a way.

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