Come join the @aholecek @Andrew afterlife party 
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Little bit of💲but what does money mean anyways in eternity?
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one little thing you can do is every time you are concerned with this, to do so good thing for others, or say a mantra, or create a special present for someone you love 
Who hasn’t? There many ways in which you can clean it up! Shamanic work, Tibetan practices, Reiki, and all previously mentioned.
for me, this a very personal choice and, as you so well mentioned, because this will take some time to happen, it can all change, so doing it in a fun way makes it all worth it! (no waste of time then).It’s a great self-discovery practice, to be answered and unfolded with the magical help of time!
We do have a thread here that you might appreciate:
thank you for sharing your truth here with us!
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thank you dear!
I love how you said “with whom I am slowly moving in the waters of life on a Friend Ship sailboat with the Dharma Will/Box as one of the destinations” - I have been thinking of whom out of my friends I would like to call upon and give them the box.
I am thinking to have a few ready to go, small and neat, with pictures of my teachers and guides and a flash drive with songs and audio books or teachings I would like to be played while I am in the process.
I hope all of our wishes for that process will come true!
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thank you for your appreciation Beloved Sister 
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I have started collecting items for my Dharma Box.
So far I want to make three of them to give to friends.
I want there to be an altar kit made of pictures of my teachers, Amitabha Buddha, etc.
Plus I will put flashdrives with the audio of Tibetan Book of the Dead so that it can be played during my dying process.
I might create a list of things I would want to be done, from hiring a death doula to just setting up the room so that is quiet and undisturbed.
I would of course have to provide for things that would require a budget (hiring a death doula).
I will have to see about that!
In the meantime, I want to create a document saying that I do not want my life to be artificially prolonged, etc.
Where does it go? To the local hospital?
I am not going to have children so of course my fear is that I might end up in old folks home…so those people will need a copy of it as well, I guess.
Lastly…today my husband’s had a friend coming over and he was talking about at some point soon when AI becomes so advanced then somehow we can use it to make biological aging into a choice and achieve immortality.
Somehow this paradigm does not sit right well with me. It is materialistic. We are so afraid of death in the US that we want to live forever. Forever locked in this reality, why? When you can go to Pure Land?
Thoughts, insights, musings?
Probably should start a separate thread for that?
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this is a lovely idea…
there’s so much that we might not talk about during our normal lives… even if it will be for just a few minutes, the feeling of creating something for several friends warms my heart.
one prayer that, perhaps you could do to Amitabha or any other deity that you feel to is to bring into your life someone who could be there for you. a friend. a neighbor, family, someone. you perhaps could make exchange of services with that person 
in Portugal, we have an online national health forum where we fill out a questionnaire with all the details we wish to have or not have being done, in our death. I remember @mbready once sharing something about this… I think… also @NightHawk999 has mentioned something specific to the USA in this area…
that’s one possibility, another one is to make up some savings to have someone at home taking care of you, with Dignity and Love.
this is indeed mind blowing… we have come attached to the birth and dying processes I guess… I had a LD tonight where I was flying in water… sliding, being pulled… legs up… things touching my lips while sliding… a lot of fun… woke up thinking if this would be a bardo…
From my experience we can experiment these altered states of consciousness without dying or being born.
I see a HUGE advantage in this… evolution will be EVEN faster… can you imagine? Not having to do the whole process of the body growing and aging?
I have been a mother - a present one. And now I am having the privilege of being present for my mother’s passage… it’s a similar process but the energy is totally different… I was thinking about this early this morning after my morning dance… when a new body is being formed, there’s a huge enthusiasm, awesome learning to be in this dimension. Both have a lot of sleep involved, caring, spontaneous body movements… it’s fascinating!
hihihi… from my experience, with evolution, Pure Land exists here also…
this is a good idea Beloved… the topic is infinite!
thank you for starting it.
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I have an envelope with $300 in my “box” for whomever handles my affairs, assuming it will take some time and money to take care of whatever it is they will be doing, and as a small show of gratitude.
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I used this which is what Andrew recommended. I had it notarized then it goes your family doctor or which ever doctor you use that has digital charting so they can upload it into your medical records.
Also, I carry a card in my wallet with a link to my five wishes document.
The people that would be in charge of making medical decisions for me if I were unable to do it myself were provided copies (as five wishes told me to do) and know my end of life care decisions.
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Is that Lama Lena?
I vibed with her youtube videos not too long before stumbling onto Master Holecek’s genius works
Here is an email I sent her back in July of 2021:
"“Are you my teacher???”
I really loved that story you shared in your Dream yoga video, it resonated very deeply with me, as have many of the other things you have said.
Did I meet you in a dream 2 nights ago, you were in a school sitting at your desk. I was not lucid, but had prepped my mind before bed to try to meet you and ask you a question (I think it may have just been my subconscious). I have been trying to lucid dream for the past 2 weeks (that is how I stumbled across your videos), I really hope to meet you in the Dream Space one day.
You made a comment in a different video about Animal Communication, or learning the language of animals. Do you have any videos that go into depth on this topic? Any links or books that have your blessings would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you for all that you do. "
She never replied back, but makes me wonder if she put a prayer in the Ether for me to find some good guides…
Found this today, looks like her website facilitates some great events:
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aaaaaahhh… this is SO smart! thanks for sharing 
Ah! this is what I had seen 
thanks for sharing a-gain
this is the Lama I couldn’t remember the name when I mentioned that I learned with her that light sleepers sleep better when they have heavy bed clothes. The same seems to be true also the other way - profound sleepers, sleep and dream better with light bed clothes.
I think she did!
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I think you might be Psychic
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I agree with this 100%
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